The Value of Previous Generations

Looking back on the heritage that my Grandparents left I have realized that as they have passed on, and as the remainder of their friends pass on, their generation is leaving a void of many great things.  Their generation had their priorities straight in so many ways and quite possibly just didn't have as many things to keep busy with and therefore the important things were easier to focus on.

There are some things that I saw in my grandparents that I do not want to forget and would like to carry the torch forward as I continue to parent and eventually become a grandparent.  I hope that I can help shrink the void that their generation is sure to leave.

Some of these things included...

When people come over to visit you stop whatever you are doing and be with them.  Shut of the TV, music and other distractions because time with people is more valuable than anything else you could possibly be doing.  Value the relationships that you have and always take time to invest in new ones.

What good food tastes like!  Whether it is pickles, peas, peppernuts, jam or mashed potatoes... everything just tastes better when it is home grown and home made!

Never say anything negative about anyone.  They taught me about unconditional love and acceptance.  I don't actually recall ever hearing negative come from my grandparents about anyone.  

Be faithful in prayer.  I was thankful to have grandparents that prayed.  I am sure that their prayers got me through some tougher times in life.  

Be honest and trustworthy.  Say it like it is not any different.  Always keep your word.  Never say anything misleading or dishonest.  Always tell the truth.

Life is better when you share sweets and treats.  Whether it was m&m's or beet pickles grandparents always seemed to have that special something "just for you".  

Life is too short to complain.  I never heard my grandma complain once the whole time she struggled with arthritis.  Come to think of it I never once heard any of the 4 grandmas that I had the priviledge to know complain at all.  They were too busy making you feel special and like you mattered.  

Family is important.  Family time is always priority and they are worth being proud of!

Be content with what you have.  If it breaks find a way to fix it.  If you live life simply and be content with what you have you don't always feel like you need to purchase more.  It gives you more time and money to spend on things that are important... like family.

Help those in need.  Visiting the sick or the lonely and making quilts to keep the poor warm were some of the ways my grandparents helped those in need pratically.  My grandma also donated blood quite often.  If it is in your power to fill a need when you see a need then do it.

I am sure there are many more lessons that I have learned from each of my grandparents over the years that have helped to make me into the person that I am today.  These are the ones that come to mind most often.